Prayer is simply talking with God, yet many believers struggle to develop a consistent and meaningful prayer life. This guide offers practical help for those wanting to grow in this essential discipline.
What Is Prayer?
Prayer is communication with God—speaking to Him and listening for His response. It's not about impressive words or lengthy speeches but honest, heartfelt conversation with your heavenly Father.
"But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret." — Matthew 6:6
The ACTS Model
A helpful framework for prayer uses the acronym ACTS:
Adoration
Begin by praising God for who He is:
- His holiness
- His power
- His love
- His faithfulness
Confession
Acknowledge your sins before God:
- Be specific, not vague
- Accept His forgiveness
- Commit to change
Thanksgiving
Express gratitude for what God has done:
- Answered prayers
- Daily blessings
- Salvation and grace
Supplication
Bring your requests to God:
- Your own needs
- Others' needs (intercession)
- God's Kingdom purposes
Practical Tips
Set a Regular Time
Choose a consistent time for prayer. Many find early morning works best, before the day's demands crowd in.
Find a Quiet Place
Minimize distractions. This might be a specific chair, a closet, or even your car.
Use Scripture
Let Bible reading fuel your prayers. Pray the Psalms back to God.
Keep a Prayer Journal
Write down your prayers and God's answers. This builds faith over time.
Don't Worry About Length
A five-minute heartfelt prayer pleases God more than an hour of mindless repetition.
When Prayer Feels Dry
Every believer experiences seasons when prayer feels difficult:
- Keep showing up anyway
- Use written prayers from Scripture
- Pray with others
- Remember that the Spirit helps us (Romans 8:26)
"The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much." — James 5:16